1. Not real. Nice guys are too nice. No one can
always be that nice unless they’re a saint. They are busy being nice
instead of being real and women instinctually don’t trust that. Bad boys
“keep it real.” Nice guys don’t want to upset the apple cart.
2. Respect. No one respects a doormat. Nice guys
don’t set boundaries or make any real demands. A bad boy doesn’t let a
woman walk all over him or control him. Women can’t respect a man they
can control. No respect equals no attraction.
3. Predictable. Most people lead boring, predictable
lives, so they’re attracted to people who are exciting and a bit
unpredictable. Bad boys are always a challenge. Nice guys are never a
challenge. Predictable plus no excitement plus no challenge equals I
prefer a bad boy.
4. Mother Nature. Women are designed to nurture.
However, instead of doing this with children, they often end up doing it
with bad boys. They think their love will save them. Nice guys rarely
need to be saved.
5. Fixer-upper. Nice guys don’t usually need to be
fixed. Bad boys usually do, so they become a project. Women think if
they can “create” the perfect man, he will never leave them. Also, if
they’re busy fixing someone else, they don’t have to look at what needs
to be fixed in their own lives
6. Sperm wars. Women are designed to procreate with
the strongest possible genes. Bad boys are sending an unconscious
message that they have great genes, so they’re not afraid of losing the
woman by misbehaving. Nice guys are sending a message that they don’t
think their genes are good enough, so they won’t misbehave.
7. Fear of intimacy. If a woman is afraid of
intimacy, she subconsciously knows she can avoid it with a bad boy,
since she can never get close enough to him to have to go there. A nice
guy will eventually want a commitment, and that’s scary.
8. Low self-esteem: We don’t feel comfortable with
people who treat us better than we treat ourselves. If you don’t think
much of yourself, the bad boy is simply reinforcing your negative
belief. A nice guy is treating you in a way you’re not familiar with.
9. s*x. Women feel a nice guy won’t be good in bed.
They sometimes like to be manhandled and think a nice guy won’t be able
to take control and get the job done. A bad boy comes across as being
able to deliver, even though that may not always be the case.
10. Hot. Have you ever seen a bad boy who wasn’t
hot? I’m sure there are a few, but they wouldn’t be able to get away
with half the stuff they did if they didn’t look so good. Meanwhile,
when a woman describes someone as a nice guy, she means, “He’s not hot.”
11. Charm. Nice guys don’t always know what to say
and are sometimes at a loss for words. Bad boys can be very charming and
know exactly what women want to hear. However, they eventually switch
over to being selfish. By the time they reveal their true colors, the
woman has fallen for them and has a hard time letting go.
12. Protection. Historically, men have protected
women — physically and otherwise. Bad boys give the illusion of being
able to protect women, while with nice guys, women aren’t so sure. Life
is about balance. Most men fall into either the bad boy or the nice guy
category. The ideal man is neither, but walks that fine line between the
two. Until men learn how to do this, more often than not, women will
choose the bad boy, until they realize that his bad qualities outweigh
his good ones.
Source: yourtango.com
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